Love and Boys

before i go on to write anything on this topic, i want to announce that i am going to be doing some posts of embarrassing moments, and im also going to add an ASK MOI page. It would really help me if YOU send me either an embarrassing experience that you have faced, or a question about boy advice, health,friends, parents, or a fashion crisis, I will try to write about everything that you post, but it depends how many people end up writing to me. if you want to be annonymous, send me an email to writing_sas@yahoo.com please bear in mind that this is my personal email and i do not take lightly to spam.

boyfriends-should you go for him?

Would you ever date a guy who’s shorter than you? I’m contemplating it right now.

A: Attraction is a funny thing in that getting to know someone can totally change what he looks like. Literally, the best looking guy may not be that attractive to you after you find out what his personality is like. And a guy who you may be unsure about (maybe he’s a little on the short side) can become a complete hottie. So, as you’ve probably guessed, I’m telling you to go for it! Don’t let something small like height get in the way of being with a great guy.

Q: I’m friends with (and have been talking to) a guy who dated my best friend last year. I’m realizing that I like him and I don’t know what to do.  Help!

A: The best thing to do in this situation is let your best friend know how you feel. Make sure she knows that just because you’re telling her about your feelings doesn’t necessarily mean you are going to act on them. Although it takes guts to talk to her, doing it could save you from some serious drama. Tell her “I care about you so much and I wanted to be honest about this. I tell you everything, and don’t want you ever to feel like I’ve hid anything from you.” Next, ask her how she would feel if you were to get closer to this guy. If you can make her feel involved in this issue, then you don’t have to worry about her feeling like you’ve gone behind her back.

Q: Should I go for a guy who lives kind of far away? I really want to have a relationship with him, but is the obstacle worth it? How do you make a long distance relationship work?

A: I say give it a shot. Long distance relationships can be a challenge, but the key is to make him as much of a part of your life as you can. Text him and call him frequently so that he knows everything that’s going on with you. Video chatting is another great way to make you feel more connected. Make time with him a priority — even if it’s just over the phone. It will be tough, but if you really like this guy, what do you have to lose? If it works out, great. If it doesn’t, at least you know you tried.

 

thankyou for reading this blog… please remember to write to me about embarrassing moments, or anything you think would be good for an ASK MOI post… lots of love to you babes!

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